amigdala

nice article by unknown for you all guys
sent by one of my best frend at KL ;p


Jangankan lelaki biasa..
nabi pun terasa sunyi tanpa wanita..
tanpa mereka, fikiran dan perasaan lelaki akan resah..
masih mencari walau ada segalanya..
apa yang ada didalam syurga..
namun Adam tetap rindukan Hawa..
dijadikan wanita daripada tulang rusuk yang bengkok..
untuk diluruskan olih lelaki..
tetapi seandainya lelaki itu tidak lurus..
mana mungkin kayu yang bengkok menghasilkan bayang yang lurus.

Luruskanlah wanita dengan jalan yang ditunjuk oleh Allah..
kerana mereka diciptakan sebegitu rupa oleh Allah..
didiklah mereka dengan panduan dariNya..
jangan coba menjinakkan mereka dengan harta..
kerana nantinya mereka semakin liar..
jangan hiburkan mereka dengan kecantikan..
kerana nantinya mereka semakin derita..
kenalkan mereka kepada Allah..
zat yang kekal..
disitulah punca kekuatan dunia.

Akal senipis rambutnya tebalkan ia dengan ilmu..
hati serapuh kaca kuatkan dengan iman..
perasaan selembut sutera hiasilah dengan ahlak..
suburkanlah ia karena dari situlah nantinya mereka akan lihat nilaian dan keadilan Rabb.
bisikan ketelinga mereka bahawa kelembutan bukan satu kelemahan..
ia bukan diskriminasi Allah..
sebaliknya disitulah kasih dan sayang Allah.

Wanita yang lupa akan hakikat kejadiannya..
pasti tidak akan terhibur..
dan tidak akan menghiburkan..
tanpa iman ilmu dan akhlak mereka tidak akan lurus...
bahkan akan semakin membengkok..
itulah hakikatnya andai wanita tidak kenal Rabbnya.

Bila wanita menjadi durhaka..
pasti dunia lelaki akan menjadi huru hara..
lelaki pula jangan mengharapkan ketaatan semata mata..
tapi binalah kepimpinan..
pastikan sebelum wanita menuju Ilahi..
pimpinlah diri kepadaNya..
jinakkan diri kepada Allah..
niscaya akan jinaklah segala galanya dibawah pimpinanmu..
janganlah mengharapkan isteri semulia Fatimah Az Zahra r.a.
seandainya dirimu tidak sehebat saidina Ali karamallahuwajhah

wherever i go, there always this jacket 'wasiat' in my body.. The Red and White sangkakala n the letter of my lovely country, Indonesia, in my left arm, the flag of my Majestic-55, mapala hukum ugm in the other one, n a 'duck hunter'embroidery in its chest.. whether in my forest survival days in mountains.. or my city survival days whether in southern or northern hemispheres.. almost all of my traveling days were accompanied by this jacket..



It's a gift from one of my best friend, a very inspiring real brother.. Supardjono (Jon) si raja jalanan, sing saiki malah dadi anak angkat kepala suku dayak di pedalaman Kalimantan.. (miss u much Jon!..=) when i was in Mapala hukum, Majestic 55, yogya.. he said that i have to wear it wherever i go.. well, here i am, jon..
Dunno why, but the jacket always keep remind me about the real life.. the real hard days i've go through with my best friend.. the jacket always remind me that i have to very thanks to God for all what given to me.. happy family, best friend arounding me, excellent life neighbourhood, chances to study, chances to see much beautiful places all over the world.. ya rabbii.. Awzi'nii 'an asykuro ni'matakallatii an'amta allayya...

These days, there are more eyes in the street that pay attention to the jacket i wear.. A long story of Tsunami, TKI, n Ambalat n other indonesian govt. conflict give most contributions for such popularity.. well, it's may not something i can really proud of.. anyway, it still remind me the one n only my Indonesia..

"terbanglah garudaku, singkirkan kutu2 disayapmu..
berkibarlah benderaku singkirkan benalu di tiangmu..
jangan ragu dan jangan malu..
tunjukkan pada dunia bahwa sebenarnya kita mampu...

bangunlah putra putri ibu pertiwi
mari mandi dan gosok gigi...
setelah itu kita berjanji,
tadi pagi esok hari atau lusa nanti,
garuda bukan burung perkutut..
sangsaka bukan sandang pembalut..
dan coba kau dengarkan..
pancasila itu bukanlah rumus kode buntut,
yg hanya berisi harapan, yg hanya berisi khayalan.."

(Iwan Fals. Bangunlah Putra-Putri Ibu Pertiwi)

When i was visiting one of my friend's house in Sheffield, Ovi (again), i found Asterix; the shootsayer edition- in one of her book shelves.. what made me suprise was to find the comis isn't belong to her or to her young brother.. the comic is belong to her father.. Her Father??!! yeah, exactly.. its her father's collection..

but do u know the reason why even an old man (including me) love to read comics?

well, i do.. hmmm.. do you realize the existence of the spaces between 'the box' in the comic? yup, n i think that's the answer.. that's explaining everything... that's the 'reader's space'... the space that gives an opportunity for a reader to be involved in the story.. to give contributions to the story.. to let their imagination play within.. n that's why i hate Asterix the movie, or Tintin the movie.. coz it's totally different with my imaginations that i keep in my head about their characteristic, behaviour, even 'voices'...